Not mine but...

I liked it. I found it while web-surfing the other day. It’s what I do in between my writing (some times), to look up facts for my story, to scratch an itch or just kill some time while my own ideas are idle. Sometimes I open one too many tabs, lose track of unnecessary windows and finally reload after reload- I don't remember my way back to my purpose of going on-line in the first place. All this to say that I ran across this quote

"Our lives are shaped by the significant truths we say or don’t say." I read it in this article:

http://life.gaiam.com/gaiam/p/RelationshipFixHowtoTellDifficultTruthsSoPeopleThankYou.htm

I am a writer but still plagued by miscommunication. It's the feelings; they get in the way. I want them when I need to induce more writing but feel so uncomfortable when they are happening “live and direct” in me. And when they're happening they require all of me. It's like trying to talk when you're yawning, not only is this a pet peeve of mine and not too mention somewhat gross and unattractive. Think for a second...who do you know that has a sexy yawn? But above all, when yawning, you need your whole mouth do it. You're jaw movement is practically involuntary. Trembling like it's cold, but it's not it's just you opening your mouth wide and sucking in deep! That's how involuntary my feelings can be- but there not supposed to be. (rolling of eyes) I know. So just read and enjoy why it’s important to tell your truths- in order to do that you have to be honest to yourself.