Se me pasó

no el día sino la tarea que me había asignado. Pero en fin, celebré en la luna llena, digo en su llenes, no estoy segura que use la palabra correcta pero en fin siento que captura perfectamente lo que he vivido. Llena, como si estuviera empanzada, bloated se dice cuando we retain water- cuando la sal corre como olas por nuestras venas...el agua se veía como sangre, sangre cuajada bien enlunada- digo iluminada

A prayer to Yemaya

Yemaya…

Oh madre poderosa

I surrender!

It is in you

that I place my hurt, anger, and fears

which have burdened my mind

and weakened my spirit.

I toss my problems, insecurities, and distrust

like rose petals

into you waters

and watch them dance

indefinitely on your crests and troughs.

Take them away from me

do as you please with them-

stuff them 1,000 leagues into your core

or let them drift and get tangled in your

jade and golden colored chains of seaweed.

Because I surrender.

I submerge my hopes and expectations

into your blue/black crystalline skirt

knowing that you will harbor them and share

with Coyolxaqhui as she passes you by at dawn.

I come to you on this chilled

lonely night

to have my soul soothed

by your roars,

to empty my body of anymore tears

at the ruffles of your shore

and watch as they are swallowed up

by your hissing waves

that break and shrivel

on the beach,

I come to purify my wounds

with your salty elixir.

Please, Yemaya

take what I give to you tonight as my offering.

No,

not a bunch of flowers or shiny pennies

but mis inquietudes

and my unshakable faith

because I surrender to your depth.

Gang-boys

A tree marked
with a giant 7
and a giant 0
The 70’s came through here.
A stop sign tagged with T-Flats
no longer stops traffic
but serves to warn you
intruder
that you’re entering
Tortilla Flat territory.
Better yield.

I lived in the middle of gangs
sandwiched between
deadly loyalties
to the red, blue, the brown.
My childhood riddled
with gang-boys
who think, believe they are men
but each one
really a man-child.
Sagging pants
weighed down
by the gats they tote.
Glock, revolver in one pocket
bandana representing in the other.
Sporting perfectly pressed
blinding bright white t’s
cut-off dark work pants
with creases cutting the air,
hair shiny, sleek
classic like the filero,
thick white sport socks pulled knee-high
and dark knit gloves in the summer!
I knew some of them
talked and laughed with them
I wasn’t
allowed to befriend them
not allowed to cross
their path to nowhere good.

Willie, aka Will or Big Slim
with his pet iguana
and his magnetic smile
couldn’t help but want to talk to him
or have him talk to you.
Always very friendly and funny
but fled to the ‘burbs
to get away from the life-
to save his life.

Either on foot,
covered in thick Nike Cortez,
or on bikes
these lost boys
left their trail
of graffiti, fear and loathing.
To see them was to know
they’d lose their life
they’d lose the street battle
leaving loved ones
the community
the city
to continue
living the war.
A war they can’t see from their graves
or the luckier ones, from their cells.
A war
fueled by the push and pull
of la pandilla, la clica, the “set”
with its utter freedom
to roam the streets, incite fear
break the rules,
break faces,
break the bank with their street hustle
gives a young boy
a dose of “manhood” to the head.
To be manly and supported in that
to be protected by your brothers in that.
How cool to be “cool” for all the girls.
Cause, who doesn’t love a bad boy (even secretly)?

Those gang-boys
who think, believe they are men
but each one
really a man-child
pushed by tradition,
cause Smiley
has Baby Smiley and Lil Smiley
looking up to big tough tatted dad.
Pushed by threats,
pushed into throwing down,
blow by blow
dying block by block.
Sacrificing their lives
disrespecting that of their enemy’s
representing their hood hard
just to be worthy of respect.
In the end
after all the fundraising:
car washes
knocking on my door collecting funds
to bury her fallen son
“Here, here is a $5, I don’t want
to see anymore pictures of him,”
can’t look at her bloodshot eyes
After all the R.I.Ps have been sewn
sprayed on, etched on
to car windows, t-shirts, caps
sweatshirts and tattooed on
brown and black skin
After all this
who thinks about
respect?
Who thinks of the boy’s set?
Just a lonely painful
memory, relived
of how a gang-boy
who thought, believed he was a man
was really a child.

My Champ

Ama..
Hearing your steps
cross our shoe-box apartment
slow moving
dragging
like a champ
knocked to the canvas
as the city enjoyed its second dream
made my little heart a little sad.
You’d come home
your body beat-up
by fatigue from back-to-back
eight-hour rounds
at the factories
piecing together
anything your nimble hands
qualified you to.
No belt, no fame, no glory
barely a living
for your accomplishments
for ever unnoticed
blended with the exploitations
of others.
Just a tired body
always tired body
you plopped onto
the sagging mattress.
I’d lay there feigning sleep
didn’t want you to notice me
didn’t want you to exert more energy
to give me a tight squeeze.
I’d watch through squinted eyes
you pulled out your bag of healing
from under our bed
medicines from across the border
brought back by neighbors,
relatives who could cross the border.
I’d hear the swishing of bottles
You’d drench your arms and legs
the sting of the green liquid-
Rue infused rubbing alcohol
burned the inside of my nose.
You’d slap your hands together
smashing and melting the slab,
yellow ointments
thick like lard
applied hands
glide across your joints.
No relief
even for relief
your hands work hard.
You winced from the aches
thin skin around your eyes
folded like fans.
I wanted to massage your feet
hot with plump plum veins
wanted to drape myself over
your wilted shoulders.
Being poor wasn’t so bad
it meant I could sleep
next to your warm body
coiled like a snail’s shell.
No 10 count for you
cansancio always had the upper hand
you were out for the night.
I could smell you smelling
of botanica
felt your hands twitch
with leftover energy.
No relief
even for relief
your hands work hard.
Felt your heavy breathing
I’d stop my breathing
waited
exhaled
with yours.
No hugs at night
no tucking in
the way you used to
but my heart
beat with yours
my champ
my Mami.

Because I’m a Fucken Queer…till 2010!

I sit here watching the news, sad news for all us gays. I speak for us all even though I know some of us gays out there don’t give two shits about marriage but the truth is that the repealing of Prop H8 is more than about granting the queers the right to marry it’s about standing up to being relegated to the status of second class citizens. So I sit here and shed a tear cause I’m a fucken, a fucked over queer. I went to a conference a few months back where I heard a prominent Chicana Lesbian author speak on the subject of gay marriage and she was not necessarily in favor of us being granted the right to partake of civil marriage (and gain from the numerous economic benefits that come with it) cause she said it made us to normative too domesticated. Also many Queers see marriage as one of the key pillars of heteronormativity, a major factor in the preservation of heterosexual culture. So gay marriage is not radical enough to change the moral sexual compass of our society? Just listen to the religious rights reason for opposing gay marriage:

• Gay relationships are immoral
• A gay household is not a stable enough environment to raise kids
• Same sex marriage will lead to polygamy, bestiality, necrophilia…etc, etc
• Gay marriage STILL = sodomy in the minds of many. It wasn’t until June 26, 2003 that the US Supreme Court ruled said laws unconstitutional. 
• Gay marriage is a slap in the face to masculinity.

 So given all the phobias and stigma that surrounds homosexuality why do some queers see still the gain of this civil right as not radical enough? I guess somehow getting married or having the right to marriage somehow absolves us from being seen and treated as queers.

 I live with my partner and her son we have a quite household. I pick him up from the sitters, we play together we eat dinner together as a family but believe me when I tell you that we are anything but normal. Some of my neighbors won’t even look me in the face and many of them were not too proud to flaunt their ‘Yes on 8’ signs during last November’s elections. And when I take my boy to the bus stop I get stared at and then have to hear and see him dodge the many questions flung at him by his peers, some of them older than him; “yo is that a woman or is that a dude?”  “hey, hey, is that a girl,”  “she looks like a boy huh?”. My boy doesn’t answer he just makes his way to the back of the bus.  So tell me how would being married to my partner change any of this, how would our bond sanctioned by the state of California protect me, us, him an eight-year-old boy from his peers’ ignorance?  It wouldn’t necessarily but it would assure some peace of mind if I (or she) were ever happen to be hospitalized, arrested or worse deceased that she, my partner can rest assured she won’t be deemed powerless by the laws of our land. 

So the California Supreme Court spoke out on Tuesday (May 26, 2009) upholding Proposition 8- many of us were devastated but not defeated and like I told my sister, who is also a big gay, the fight isn’t over; this is so much more than civil unions it’s about human rights.  The fact that five states - Massachusetts, Iowa, Vermont, Connecticut and Maine - have approved same-sex marriage during the time that California judges were deliberating over Prop 8 and recently it has been reported that at least three other states New York, New Jersey and New Hampshire, are seriously considering the matter show that this is now a national issues. So I expect to meet again in 2010…and not be fucked over. 

Tejano

Para Joe J. 

If I ever have a boyfriend

Quiero que sea como tu

Pelon, chaparrito and if it's not asking too much

Que tambien sea Tejano

So he can have his corazon mas rasquachi que

black velvet

Un hombre con la suerte de una mujer sufrida

Que se hace garras por un poquito de romance.

Un pelon bien acholado

Whose inner chola goes wild

Al oir el 'Bidi-bid-Bom-Bom"